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14 MISTAKES WOMEN MAKES WHEN IT COMES TO MEN

Published On: May 25, 2014, By: George Taylor, Wisconsin

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Ladies, whatís wrong with us? Why do we always feel like weíre doing something wrong? Why is it always our problem, our issue that needs to be addressed? Why do we keep making the same mistakes over and over again? Why canít we just be perfect?

When it comes to men, we have a tendency to overthink, analyze and berate ourselves until weíre left with nothing but broken hearts and a closet full of ďmistakesĒ we wish could take back.

We look at our relationships as ships that only we could crash, forcing ourselves to sink along with them. We wish that we could do it all over again and take back everything that drove him away or made him love us less.

We think of all the things weíd do differently. Weíd call him less, look through his phone more, stop looking at his phone, play hard to get, play a little easier to get, and the list goes on.

I have a problem with this. I have a problem because after years of punishing myself over failed relationships and long, single statuses, Iíve realized that maybe our biggest mistake is thinking that weíre making any at all.

Why do we give ourselves the short end of the stick all the time? Why do we take the blame for the way he acted or the reason he left? Why do we only see our own failures and mistakes when clearly the problem is his. Iím tired of women thinking that they are the ones always doing something wrong.

Iím tired of women thinking they need to change to be with a man or that a man is a necessary goal for their happiness. Weíve come too far and done too much to keep believing that we are making the mistakes.

So for women everywhere who are crying over, for or under a man, here are the 12 real mistakes you need to stop making, beginning with thinking that you even need one..



 
1  

Thinking You Need A Man To Be Happy

 
 
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You do not need a man. You do not need anyone. Everyone else is just distracting you from getting to know yourself. Men come and go, and maybe one day you will find the right one and settle down, but until then, stop trying to complete your life with anyone but yourself.
 
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3  

Caring About How You Look

 
 
 
You donít have to be beautiful for anyone. You donít owe your looks to men. You donít owe them big boobs or soft skin. You donít owe them long legs and silky hair. You donít owe them skinny torsos and painted toenails. They may ask for it, but that doesnít mean they have a right to it.
 
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4  

Saying Sorry

 
 
 
You havenít done anything wrong. (Unless you have.) They are not your captors and you are not there to apologize to them. Donít apologize because your hair is short or your sweater is baggy.

Donít apologize because you have your period or you donít want to sleep with them. Donít apologize because you canít meet their demands or their requests. You are a woman who needs no apologies.
 
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5  

Worrying About Someoneís Needs Over Your Own

 
 
 
Stop trying to make men happy. You are supposed to take care of yourself and worry about your own needs first. Donít do things for him just because it will make him happy. Donít value yourself as nothing more than a slave to his demands. Remember, your needs are just as important as are his.
 
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7  

Putting Your Worth In Him

 
 
 
Your worth is not determined by any man. You donít need a man to be happy nor should you judge yourself on the opinion of one.

Thereís no reason to think that just because you are single that you are worth less than if you were attached. You are strong and independent, donít let anyone tell you otherwise.
 
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8  

Wanting More Than He Can Give

 
 
 
Stop looking for a boyfriend in a boy who doesnít want to be associated with the word. If you know he canít give you what you want then move on or accept that. Stop trying to turn him into something he doesnít want to be, because in the end, you will be the only one who ends up changing.
 
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9  

Missing Him

 
 
 
Mourning a man is as stupid as crying over milk that hasnít even spilled yet, a waste of time and only creating more troubles for yourself.

Lamenting over men who will never love you or men you canít be with will only keep you from meeting the ones who can. Donít give them your tears, because even tears are worth something.
 
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11  

Giving Him All Your Time

 
 
 
Donít be that girl who forgets about everyone who was there for her before he came into the picture. Donít let a man take you away from everything you once knew and loved. Because before him, these things were important to you. Donít give him everything just because he may feel like yours right now.
 
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12  

Chasing Him

 
 
 
A strong woman chases no one. If he is worth your time and your love, he will figure it out on his own. Donít let him think that heís worth the chase, because the more he runs, the further behind you get.
 
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13  

Believing Him

 
 
 
Men know what will make you happy, but many times they are able to trick you with just the promise of it. Expect nothing from them and you will never end up disappointed.
 
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Giving Him Power

 
 
 
Men often may be physically stronger than you, but that means nothing. Do not make them feel like they could ever own you, because no mind nor soul can be dominated by pure strength. Do not become objects to men that they can just buy and sell.

Do not fight against other women for their attention. Do not give them anything more than the same respect you give your sisters.
 
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