5 WAYS TO MAKE A WOMAN FEEL REALLY LOVED
  
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5 WAYS TO MAKE A WOMAN FEEL REALLY LOVED



Published On: April 11, 2015, by Neat Buzz, Ruth Campbell, Virginia
Tag: Selfimprovement, Health , Rating: 4.5

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I saw a funny thing today on Facebook which said, ďMen: If you ever wanna know what a womanís mind feels like, imagine a browser with 2,857 tabs open. All. The. Time.Ē And while that crazy tendency to think, imagine, create, obsess, worry over a thousand things all at the same time can be true at many times of any given day in my own life, women are, I believe, actually quite simple to please at heart.

Ultimately, each of us are just another human being ďwanting to know that I am safe, that I am appreciated and loved for who I am.Ē

Iíve still got plenty to learn myself on this tricky but magical but challenging but thrilling path of forging and maintaining relationships, but hereís what Iíve treasured most from the times Iíve been so fortunate to love and be loved.



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GET NAKED WITH ME

 

Not just in the literal sense (although that would also be fantastic!). I have loved most the men who have dared to be vulnerableóand I say Ďdaredí because I think to show yourself honestly is an act of tremendous courage and strength. We donít all want or need infallible superheroes. I just want to see you for you and as youóthe amazing stuff, bad stuff, silly stuff, strong stuff, embarrassing stuff.

This isnít about prying into your private inner life, itís about understanding what makes your heart soar (and helping to give you extra big wings for it) and discovering what it really is that has birthed all those other things in and about you that Iíve fallen in love with.

Talk to me, share with me what youíre excited about, get mad and frustrated if I donít understand or agree sometimes, donít be afraid to be excited about something in front of me, let your face spontaneously contort into a million different expressions without trying to mask it into a placid something that you think Iíd want to see. Just be you.

5 WAYS TO MAKE A WOMAN FEEL REALLY LOVED
  

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TELL ME IíM BEAUTIFUL

 

And no, this isnít about reassuring me that ďmy bum doesnít look big in this dressĒ or telling me my new haircut looks great. I am glad when you tell me that Iím beautiful, but really, I love it more that you appreciate the things that have nothing to do with what I look likeómy passion, my weird interests, my friendships, my wounds, my histories, my triumphs.

I feel most loved when you tell me that Iím beautiful when I know Iím at my most unkempt; when Iíve been so deeply engrossed in whatever Iím doing, loving, creating, living that I havenít even realized that thereís now ink all over my face and my hair needs a wash.

More often than not, I have fallen in love with you for so much more than your beautiful faceóyour energy, your talent, your humor, your many quirks, the cheeky glint in your eye, your passions, the way you light up when youíre extolling the virtues of deep-fried foods. I hope more than ever that I have captured your heart in the same way.

If I have, please let me know; this is what will make me feel my most beautiful.

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LET ME KNOW IíM PART OF YOUR LIFE

 

Us girls love to talk, but this isnít just about long conversations. Stay in touch with me and let me know that I am a part of your life, not just someone you meet up with for dinner and a sleepover. Remember the things I care about and bring these aspects into the time you do spend with me.

This could be something as simple as knowing that I like nature and taking me for a walk in the woods. Send me a little unexpected text message in the middle of the day to say hello. Pluck me a wildflower just because. Take note of a cool quote from my favourite author that you just stumbled upon and email it to me. Remember that I had an important meeting this morning and ask me about it when you see me.

Let me know that even if we donít have long conversations, the things that I do tell you stick and are important for you because theyíre important to me.

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LET ME CRY

 

Because I will panic sometimes. I will cry. I will sink into a dark, depressing, heavy place. Things will upset me more than they should and I may fall apart. Please donít belittle the hurt or tell me that Iím just being silly or that ďitís not that badĒ. I just want someone to hold me, kiss the tears from my eyes, stroke my hair, listen to my anxieties and tell me that I will be okay.

Even if you donít know how itís going to be okay, even if you donít really know what Iím so sad about, just hold me, breathe into the pain with me, tell me that you will love me through this. Sing me a song, make me a sandwich, help me to fall asleep againólet me know that itís okay to be where I am now but also reassure me that you believe in me and my strength to pull through this.

Please understand that I will be okay and I will get through this. I am not expecting you to fix things for me but it makes a world of difference for me just to know that you understand Iím hurting, that youíre letting me be in this place for a while and that youíll still be there when I come out.

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LEAVE THE DOOR TO YOUR CAVE A LITTLE AJAR

 

I know that sometimes, when the world gets too big and heavy and difficult, you too would like to withdraw and go into a quiet place all alone. I understand that and I respect it and will love you through all the time that youíre there. I ask only that you leave the door to the cave a little ajar, just so I can come in sometimes just to be with you and see your lovely face.

I wonít tread heavily or make a sound. We donít need to utter a word to each other. Just let me know that you know that Iím there, that you havenít forgotten and that you know Iím always just outside the cave entrance, not far away, if only for a cuddle or a bowl of ice cream or a big long hearty talk if you want it.

Care for me in turn by not pushing me away. Love me just by knowing and acknowledgingóif only by a silent gazeóthat I am here for you, I love you, I care for you.

5 WAYS TO MAKE A WOMAN FEEL REALLY LOVED
  


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